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    <loc>https://www.thepositiveparentcoach.co.uk/parenting-blog/what-is-a-deep-feeler-understanding-your-highly-emotional-child</loc>
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      <image:title>Blog - What Is a Deep Feeler? Understanding Your Highly Emotional Child - Signs Your Child Might Be a Deep Feeler</image:title>
      <image:caption>Every child is unique, but deeply feeling children often share some of these characteristics: Strong emotional reactions to everyday situations Sensitivity to other people’s emotions or moods Difficulty with transitions or unexpected changes Deep empathy and compassion for others Strong attachment to routines or familiar environments Tendency to overthink or ruminate on experiences Physical reactions to emotional stress (stomachaches, headaches, or tiredness) Huge sense of Injustice and the need for things to feel fair Recognising these traits early can help you respond with understanding rather than frustration, supporting your child’s emotional wellbeing.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://www.thepositiveparentcoach.co.uk/parenting-blog/child-meltdowns-what-to-do-instead-of-punishment</loc>
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      <image:title>Blog - If Your Child Melts Down, Shuts Down, or Pushes Back — This Is for You - The Real Reason Behind Child Meltdowns and Challenging Behaviour</image:title>
      <image:caption>Does your child: Melt down when you say “no”? Struggle with transitions like turning off screens or leaving the house? Lash out, shout, or swear when overwhelmed? Shut down or withdraw emotionally? What looks like defiance or “bad behaviour” is often something very different. These behaviours are usually signs of a dysregulated nervous system.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - If Your Child Melts Down, Shuts Down, or Pushes Back — This Is for You - The Influence of Traditional Parenting and Generational Patterns</image:title>
      <image:caption>For generations, parenting has focused on: Obedience over understanding Behaviour control over emotional development Punishment as a way to teach So when your child struggles, your instinct might be:  “I need to stop this behaviour now.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - If Your Child Melts Down, Shuts Down, or Pushes Back — This Is for You - How to Respond to Tantrums and Emotional Outbursts Calmly</image:title>
      <image:caption>Here’s a simple framework to follow in the moment: Pause before reacting Acknowledge the feeling Hold the boundary clearly Stay calm and present Come back to teaching later This reduces escalation and builds long-term emotional skills.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://www.thepositiveparentcoach.co.uk/parenting-blog/how-to-talk-to-children-about-scary-world-events</loc>
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    <lastmod>2026-03-03</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blog - How to Talk to Children About Scary World Events (Without Increasing Anxiety) - Why Children Need Certainty, And What To Do When We Can’t Offer It</image:title>
      <image:caption>Both children and adults are wired to seek predictability and familiarity. When life feels uncertain, our nervous systems move into a state of alert, which can show up as: Increased anxiety More questions Sleep difficulties Emotional outbursts or clinginess While we can’t control what’s happening in the world, we can control what happens inside our homes — and how information is shared. Children don’t need certainty about global events. They need certainty about you.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - How to Talk to Children About Scary World Events (Without Increasing Anxiety) - Give Facts Without Fear</image:title>
      <image:caption>Children deserve honesty, but they do not need adult-level detail. When explaining world events to children: Keep language simple and age-appropriate Stick to what is happening now Avoid discussing worst-case scenarios or future predictions For example: “Some countries are having a disagreement, and the leaders of those countries are trying to sort it out.” This approach helps children understand without creating new unknowns that fuel anxiety.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - How to Talk to Children About Scary World Events (Without Increasing Anxiety) - Be Mindful of News Exposure</image:title>
      <image:caption>Children absorb information even when they aren’t actively listening. To reduce anxiety: Limit background news or radio Be mindful of adult conversations around children Choose intentional moments to talk, rather than constant exposure Less passive exposure often leads to fewer worries.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://www.thepositiveparentcoach.co.uk/parenting-blog/why-are-more-children-starting-school-not-potty-trained</loc>
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    <lastmod>2026-03-03</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blog - Why Are More Children Starting School Not Potty Trained? - The Impact of Lockdown on Early Childhood Development</image:title>
      <image:caption>Many of the children who have recently started school* were either born during the COVID-19 lockdowns or spent their earliest formative years within them. This period had a profound impact on families — particularly those with babies and toddlers. *most of the school readiness data used as a comparison is taken from children starting school in years 2024 and 2025</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Why Are More Children Starting School Not Potty Trained? - The Shift Towards Child-Led Parenting</image:title>
      <image:caption>Alongside the impact of lockdown, there has been a broader cultural shift towards child-led and gentle parenting approaches. At its best, this movement has helped parents become more attuned, emotionally responsive, and respectful of children’s needs. However, child-led parenting is sometimes misinterpreted. In practice, it can become: Waiting indefinitely for the child to initiate toileting Avoiding limits for fear of distress Believing that adult guidance equals pressure The reality is that many children need scaffolding — a bridge between where they are and the skill they are learning. Potty training is not just about readiness; it is also a learning process that often requires calm, confident adult leadership.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Why Are More Children Starting School Not Potty Trained? - This Is Not About Blame</image:title>
      <image:caption>It’s important to be clear: This increase in children starting school not potty trained is not about parents doing something wrong. It’s about: Families raising young children during an extraordinary global event Reduced access to support and early intervention Conflicting parenting advice Children with diverse needs requiring different levels of guidance With the right understanding and support, these children can absolutely learn this skill — often very quickly.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://www.thepositiveparentcoach.co.uk/parenting-blog/getting-kids-ready-for-school-calm-mornings</loc>
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    <lastmod>2026-02-04</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blog - How to Get Kids Ready for School: Calmer Mornings with Strong-Willed and Sensitive Children - Parents Live on Planet Planning, Kids Live on Planet Present</image:title>
      <image:caption>One of the biggest challenges is that parents operate on “Planet Planning,” thinking several steps ahead and managing multiple tasks at once. Kids, especially younger children and deep feelers, live fully in the moment on “Planet Present.” When we expect our children to meet us on Planet Planning (getting dressed, eating breakfast, and packing their bags on time) we are asking them to do something developmentally challenging. Strong-willed or sensitive children, in particular, may resist demands or become overwhelmed. This is why shouting and frustration often happen: the gap between parent expectations and a child’s ability to respond in the moment is too wide.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - How to Get Kids Ready for School: Calmer Mornings with Strong-Willed and Sensitive Children - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://www.thepositiveparentcoach.co.uk/parenting-blog/whining-in-children-why-its-so-triggering-for-parents-and-how-to-respond-calmly</loc>
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    <lastmod>2026-01-27</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blog - Whining in Children: Why It’s So Triggering for Parents and How to Respond Calmly - Why Whining Is So Triggering for Parents</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whining often activates our nervous system faster than other behaviours. It sits in a grey area where a child isn’t fully dysregulated, but they’re also not calm, and that ambiguity can feel deeply uncomfortable. For many adults, whining subconsciously signals: “I’m not being listened to” “This could escalate at any moment” “I need to fix this now” On a physiological level, whining is repetitive, high-pitched, and persistent — all qualities that the nervous system is wired to notice as potential stressors. If you’re already tired, touched out, or overwhelmed, your capacity to tolerate that sound drops significantly. It can also tap into our own childhood experiences. Many parents were taught that whining was “annoying” or something to be shut down quickly. When our child whines, it can activate a shame response; a feeling that we’re failing, being judged, or losing control, even if no one else is watching.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Whining in Children: Why It’s So Triggering for Parents and How to Respond Calmly - How to Respond to Whining Without Shouting</image:title>
      <image:caption>When children are whining, many parents find themselves asking the same question: How do I make this stop without losing my patience? The key thing to understand is that whining is rarely about the request itself. It is usually a sign that your child’s nervous system is unsettled and they are struggling with emotional regulation. In these moments, reasoning, explaining, or negotiating often makes things worse rather than better. Responding to whining without shouting starts with shifting your focus from stopping the sound to supporting regulation. Your child needs your calm nervous system to help steady theirs. When you slow your voice, soften your tone, and reduce how much you say, you are giving their brain cues of safety. This helps move them out of a stress response and back towards a state where they can cope with disappointment or waiting. It can also help to remember that connection reduces whining far more effectively than control. A short acknowledgement of how they feel, followed by clear and calm boundaries, is often enough to prevent escalation. This approach does not mean giving in. It means responding in a way that supports your child’s emotional development while protecting your own capacity.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Whining in Children: Why It’s So Triggering for Parents and How to Respond Calmly - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://www.thepositiveparentcoach.co.uk/parenting-blog/child-refusing-school-or-activities</loc>
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    <lastmod>2026-01-13</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blog - When Your Child Refuses School or Activities: How to Support Them Without Damaging Your Relationship - A Real-Life Example: When My Child Didn’t Want to Go In</image:title>
      <image:caption>Recently, my daughter resisted going into school for PE. Instead of persuading, explaining, or trying to rush her through the fear, I paused and said: “You don’t feel like going in for PE today, I hear you.” That sentence mattered more than any explanation I could have given. Here are the steps I followed…</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - When Your Child Refuses School or Activities: How to Support Them Without Damaging Your Relationship - Why This Approach Works (Especially for Deep Feelers)</image:title>
      <image:caption>When children feel: Heard Understood Emotionally safe Their nervous system can settle. And when the nervous system settles, children are far more capable of: Managing transitions Facing fears Following boundaries Moving forward without force This is how we keep relationships strong while still guiding our children through hard things.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://www.thepositiveparentcoach.co.uk/parenting-blog/back-to-school-struggles</loc>
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    <lastmod>2026-01-07</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blog - The Return to School: Why So Many Children Struggle (and How the BRIDGE Framework Can Help - Why the Return to School Is So Hard for Children</image:title>
      <image:caption>School requires children to: Wake earlier and transition quickly Follow adult-led schedules Sit still, listen, and regulate for long periods Manage social dynamics Separate from parents for much of the day Even when school is positive, these demands can feel intense, especially after holidays or breaks. Children often don’t say “I’m finding this transition hard”. Instead, their nervous system speaks through behaviour.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - The Return to School: Why So Many Children Struggle (and How the BRIDGE Framework Can Help - Common Behaviours Parents Notice at Home…</image:title>
      <image:caption>You might see: Difficulty separating from you at bedtime Waking in the night and calling for you or climbing into your bed Increased fussiness around food or clothing (“I don’t like how this feels”) More frequent or intense emotional meltdowns over small things Needing more help to calm, regulate, or reset Some children also become more controlling or demanding, dictating where people sit, what games are played, or when things happen. This is not manipulation. It’s a child trying to regain a sense of control when their world feels demanding.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - The Return to School: Why So Many Children Struggle (and How the BRIDGE Framework Can Help - Introducing the BRIDGE Framework Rather than trying to stop or correct these behaviours, we can support the nervous system underneath them. The BRIDGE Framework is a practical, relationship-based approach I use to support deeply feeling children through separation and transition, including the return to school.</image:title>
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    <loc>https://www.thepositiveparentcoach.co.uk/parenting-blog/is-child-centred-parenting-putting-pressure-on-your-relationship-bfyrw</loc>
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    <lastmod>2026-01-07</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blog - When “Santa’s Watching” Becomes a Parenting Tool, and Why It Can Backfire - Why Parents Use Fear-Based Strategies at Christmas</image:title>
      <image:caption>The festive period is intense for families. Children are often: Overtired Overstimulated Out of routine Experiencing big emotions When a quick sentence stops a meltdown, it’s understandable to use it. Most parents aren’t choosing fear intentionally — they’re choosing survival. However, behaviour managed through fear doesn’t equal emotional learning.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - When “Santa’s Watching” Becomes a Parenting Tool, and Why It Can Backfire - Grab my 8 Step Parenting Guide to Successfully Navigate the festive period below!</image:title>
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    <loc>https://www.thepositiveparentcoach.co.uk/parenting-blog/is-child-centred-parenting-putting-pressure-on-your-relationship</loc>
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    <lastmod>2025-12-15</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blog - Is Child Centred Parenting Putting Pressure on Your Relationship? - What Is Child Centred Parenting?</image:title>
      <image:caption>Child centred parenting starts with the best of intentions; to truly understand, support and nurture your child’s needs. It encourages empathy, emotional awareness and responsiveness. But when every decision, schedule and conversation revolves around the child, it can unintentionally create imbalance in family life. Couples stop having time to talk about anything other than the kids, and parents can begin to feel like co-managers instead of partners. The focus shifts entirely to the child’s world, leaving little space for adult connection, fun or rest.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://www.thepositiveparentcoach.co.uk/parenting-blog/do-you-want-your-child-to-listen-or-to-think</loc>
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    <lastmod>2025-10-01</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blog - Do you want your child to listen….    or to think? - Obedience vs. Leadership</image:title>
      <image:caption>I still remember the day my eldest — about six at the time — crossed her arms at bedtime and declared: “You don’t get to tell me when I’m tired!” Every part of me wanted to snap back: “I’m the parent. You listen to me.” But something in her little voice caught my attention. She wasn’t trying to be rude. She was trying to express a need, to understand her own limits. It made me stop and think: Do I want a child who simply does as she’s told… or one who grows up able to notice her needs and speak up about them?</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Do you want your child to listen….    or to think? - “That’s Not Fair!”</image:title>
      <image:caption>If you have more than one child, you know this phrase well. Kids often see fairness as sameness. But fair actually means meeting individual needs. When my younger one used to go to bed earlier, my older child would complain: “That’s not fair! She gets to stay up longer now.” I’d say: “I hear you. When you were her age, you had the same bedtime. As you got older and could handle it, you earned a later one.” That simple explanation — plus a lot of empathy — helped her see that the difference wasn’t a punishment; it was about development.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://www.thepositiveparentcoach.co.uk/parenting-blog/after-school-meltdowns-why-kids-save-their-big-feelings-for-home</loc>
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    <lastmod>2025-09-19</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blog - After School Meltdowns: Why kids save their big feelings for home - Why Do After School Meltdowns Happen?</image:title>
      <image:caption>Emotional Exhaustion – School demands a huge amount of self-regulation. Kids have to sit still, follow rules, navigate friendships, and focus for long stretches. By the end of the day, their emotional ‘fuel tank’ is running on empty. Masking at School – Many children, especially sensitive or neurodivergent kids, work extra hard to “hold it together” in the classroom. They suppress big feelings and hide signs of stress, which then build up inside. The Safe Base Effect – Home is where children feel safe to let their true emotions out. As tough as it is to face the outbursts, it’s also a compliment—it means they trust you with their hardest feelings. Unmet Needs – Hunger, tiredness, and overstimulation are major triggers. By the time kids get home, their basic needs might be pushing them past their ability to cope calmly.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2025-09-04</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blog - When your child only wants YOU (and no one else will do)</image:title>
      <image:caption>Recently, I worked with a mum whose little one was deep in a “mummy-only” phase. Bedtime? Mummy. Brushing teeth? Mummy. Holding hands on the way to school? Mummy. Her partner felt pushed aside, their evenings were tense, and she was running on empty — torn between wanting a break and feeling guilty for even wanting one. We talked about why this happens — especially for deep-feeling children. Parent preference in children often shows up when a child is craving predictability and control in a world that feels big and overwhelming. Choosing one parent is their way of saying: “This feels safe, this is certain.”</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://www.thepositiveparentcoach.co.uk/parenting-blog/when-parenting-feels-hard-this-membership-helps-you-through-it</loc>
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    <lastmod>2025-08-27</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blog - When Parenting Feels Hard, This Membership Helps You Through It - For the Days When You’re Drowning, Not Just Floating</image:title>
      <image:caption>We all have moments where we’re just trying to get through the day without crying in the laundry room. When nothing you say seems to work. When you feel like you’re either shouting or shutting down. This membership isn’t just for learning, it’s for navigating. It helps you: Stay calm when everything in you wants to scream Understand what’s happening beneath the behaviour Respond with connection, not chaos Get scripts and strategies that actually work in real life not just in theory All from the comfort of your own home, or on the go!</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - When Parenting Feels Hard, This Membership Helps You Through It</image:title>
      <image:caption>What to Say (When You Have No Idea) In the heat of the moment, it’s hard to think clearly. That’s where the script bank becomes gold. Get ready-to-use phrases for: Boundary-setting without shaming Repairing after you’ve shouted Helping your child name and move through big feelings Navigating power struggles without losing connection Because when your child is crying and your patience is paper-thin, you don’t have time to read another book. You need the words now. This membership gives you them.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://www.thepositiveparentcoach.co.uk/parenting-blog/why-the-raising-positive-people-membership-is-your-parenting-partner</loc>
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    <lastmod>2026-02-18</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blog - Why The Parenting Solutions Studio Membership Is Your Parenting Partner - A Partner Who Grows With You</image:title>
      <image:caption>Children don’t stay the same. They grow, change, push new boundaries and so do we as parents. This membership evolves with you. New workshops, fresh insights, and responsive support are added regularly, meaning you're never stuck trying to apply outdated advice to a brand-new phase. Whether your child is just entering toddlerhood or heading toward big school emotions, the content grows alongside your needs.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://www.thepositiveparentcoach.co.uk/parenting-blog/discover-the-raising-positive-people-membership-hub</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2026-02-18</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blog - Discover The Parenting Solutions Studio Membership - Why This Studio Meets Parent Needs</image:title>
      <image:caption>Parenting with intuition, not stress: Many parents feel overwhelmed by inconsistent advice or guilt-driven discipline. This studio centres on parenting rooted in connection, internal motivation, and emotional safety—not manipulation through external rewards or threats .</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://www.thepositiveparentcoach.co.uk/parenting-blog/turning-chaos-into-connection-planning-summer-holidays-with-the-kids-off</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2025-08-06</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blog - Turning Chaos into Connection: Planning Summer Holidays with the Kids Off - The secret? Don’t aim for perfect aim for presence.</image:title>
      <image:caption>You don’t need to fill every minute of every day with activities and entertainment. In fact, kids thrive on rhythm, not rigid schedules. Create a loose routine that gives your days some structure, think playtime, quiet time, outside time, and screen time without making it so strict that it becomes a chore. When children know what to expect, they feel more secure, and you get a bit more breathing room.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://www.thepositiveparentcoach.co.uk/parenting-blog/messy-days-amp-meltdowns-a-real-life-blog-from-a-mum-in-the-chaos</loc>
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    <lastmod>2025-08-03</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blog - Messy Days &amp;amp; Meltdowns: A Real-Life Blog from a Mum in the Chaos - There are days I sit in the bathroom for five minutes just to breathe.</image:title>
      <image:caption>There are nights I lie in bed replaying everything I think I did “wrong” too much screen time, too much shouting, not enough patience. And in the thick of those moments, perfection feels like a cruel myth. A standard no real parent could ever meet. And that’s the truth I’ve had to make peace with: perfection isn’t real. The Instagram-worthy houses, the calm gentle voices all the time, the kids playing nicely in coordinated outfits? That’s not real life. Not for me. Not for most of us.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://www.thepositiveparentcoach.co.uk/parenting-blog/keeping-your-cool-when-youre-exhausted-the-silent-power-of-showing-up</loc>
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    <lastmod>2025-07-22</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blog - Keeping Your Cool When You’re Exhausted: The Silent Power of Showing Up</image:title>
      <image:caption>Keeping your cool when you’re exhausted is one of the hardest parts of being a parent especially when your child needs you to be calm, centred, and present even in the moments when you feel anything but. Whether you’re parenting through sleepless nights, emotional outbursts, endless routines, or complex needs, the reality is that burnout can creep in silently and steal the joy from your day-to-day life. But there’s power in awareness. When you notice you’re at your edge, when you admit to yourself, “I’m running low,” that’s the first step toward reclaiming your calm.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://www.thepositiveparentcoach.co.uk/parenting-blog/positive-parenting-with-an-autistic-child-a-journey-of-connection-patience-and-growth</loc>
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    <lastmod>2025-07-08</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blog - Positive Parenting with an Autistic Child: A Journey of Connection, Patience, and Growth</image:title>
      <image:caption>One of the cornerstones of positive parenting is emotional attunement. Your child might struggle with self-regulation or sensory overload, which can lead to meltdowns or withdrawal. Instead of reacting with frustration, positive parenting encourages you to offer calmness, co-regulation, and empathy. Meeting big feelings with reassurance helps your child feel safe and supported, even when they can’t express what’s wrong.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2025-07-04</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blog - Why Parenting a Deep Feeler can be hard; why do situations escalate? - Why Parenting Deep Feelers Feels So Hard</image:title>
      <image:caption>Parenting a deep feeler often means navigating: Big emotional waves that arrive out of nowhere Explosions over tiny things (a broken toy, the wrong colour cup, not being first) A constant push-pull of connection and rejection Feeling like you’re walking on eggshells, trying to avoid the next eruption Guilt, because you tried your best — and still, they yelled, slammed, hit, or sobbed And when these emotions come flooding out, it can feel like a tidal wave crashing into your nervous system. Before you know it, you're caught in the storm too — shouting, reacting, or shutting down, even though you swore you wouldn’t.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Why Parenting a Deep Feeler can be hard; why do situations escalate? - What Deep Feelers Really Need</image:title>
      <image:caption>These kids don’t need “tough love.” They need firm, grounded, warm leadership. They need to know: “My parent can handle my feelings.” “Even when I fall apart, they don’t see me as a bad kid.” “There are limits — but I’m not shamed or pushed away.” That’s a hard balance to strike when you’re feeling drained and dysregulated. That’s why one of the most powerful things you can do is learn to regulate yourself first — not perfectly, but enough to stay present. When you can stay calm, clear, and connected, you become their emotional anchor. And slowly, they learn to borrow your calm, until they can build their own.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2025-06-10</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blog - Breaking Through Emotional Distance: The Power of Presence in Parenting - Children are perceptive and can sense when a parent's attention is divided. They may internalise this as a reflection of their worth, leading to issues with self-esteem and emotional security. Over time, this can manifest in behavioural problems or emotional withdrawal.</image:title>
      <image:caption>To bridge this gap, it's essential to cultivate mindfulness in parenting. This doesn't mean being perfect but being genuinely present during interactions with your child. Simple practices like making eye contact, active listening, and engaging in shared activities can foster a deeper connection. Even brief moments of undivided attention can have a significant impact on a child's emotional well-being .</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Feeling Exhausted as a Parent? You’re not alone, and you’re not failing!</image:title>
      <image:caption>Take Emma, for example—a mum of two and a full-time professional. Every morning felt like a battleground. Her 4-year-old daughter refused to get dressed without a meltdown, while her toddler clung to her leg as she tried to make breakfast. By 8 a.m, Emma was already in tears, questioning how she'd get through the rest of the day. One morning, her daughter cried because her socks didn’t feel right, and Emma—bone tired and emotionally frayed—snapped: “Just put them on! I don’t have time for this!” The look on her child’s face haunted her for days. Emma’s story is one so many parents share.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://www.thepositiveparentcoach.co.uk/parenting-blog/which-style-of-parenting-is-the-best</loc>
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    <lastmod>2025-02-11</lastmod>
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    <loc>https://www.thepositiveparentcoach.co.uk/parenting-blog/secret-santa-is-it-time-for-the-truth</loc>
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    <lastmod>2023-12-05</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blog - Secret Santa; is it time for the truth?</image:title>
      <image:caption>Secret Santa; is it time for the truth? Children have believed in Santa for hundreds of years and parents have passed on their Christmas traditions for as long as they can in the hope to keep the magic alive. However more and more families are now questioning the ethics and morals behind essentially lying to their children, and what this might mean in terms of whether their child trusts them, how they respond to the news he doesn’t exist and at what point parents should be sharing this knowledge and potentially ruining the magic of Christmas.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://www.thepositiveparentcoach.co.uk/parenting-blog/how-to-successfully-introduce-a-sibling</loc>
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    <lastmod>2023-12-05</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blog - How to successfully introduce a sibling - How to successfully introduce a sibling</image:title>
      <image:caption>Finding out you are having another baby can be such an exciting time but for your other children it can also be daunting. No doubt you’ll have told them they will be a big brother or big sister, and highlighted some positives of this but even if they are looking forward to their sibling’s arrival it’s still a big change that they need to adjust too. There are however some things you can do to ease the transition and set yourself up for success when it comes to your baby’s arrival. I’ve listed my top five tips for  successfully introducing a sibling below.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - How to successfully introduce a sibling - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://www.thepositiveparentcoach.co.uk/parenting-blog/talking-about-death</loc>
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    <lastmod>2023-12-05</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blog - How to talk to young children about the death of The Queen (and other people) - How to talk to young children about the death of The Queen (and other people)</image:title>
      <image:caption>It’s been a strange couple of weeks for many children; starting or returning to school after a summer break and then The Queen dying and ending her historical reign, with her son King Charles III starting his. Not to mention a new Prime Minister and ongoing discussions of the War in Ukraine. It’s a lot to get your head around even for adults, so it’s no wonder parents are seeing their children pushing back, getting emotional and showing unwanted behaviours. When someone dies we can feel a shift in ourselves not only for that particular person but also because it can trigger feelings of loss we have experienced previously. If we haven’t yet been able to process those feelings, or if we were bought up with the approach of emotions not being freely talked about it can seem even harder to know how to respond. Whilst I can’t help you right now with unpicking your own feelings and healing those inner wounds, what I can do is provide some strategies on how you can support your child so they feel able to process their emotions and feel heard and understood. Which will enable them to develop their emotional regulation and intelligence.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - How to talk to young children about the death of The Queen (and other people) - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://www.thepositiveparentcoach.co.uk/parenting-blog/self-care-for-mums</loc>
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    <lastmod>2023-12-05</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blog - Self Care for New Mums; letting go of Mum guilt and changing your belief of ‘wanting more’ to ‘what you deserve’</image:title>
      <image:caption>We’ve all heard the advice to put your oxygen mask on first before helping others, and had the importance of self care drilled into us so why is it that when we become a Mum our Mindset changes and we believe that in order to be the best Mum we can be we must put our child’s needs first, at the expense of our own? At what point do we accept that something needs to change? Is it after the first random bursting into tears? The resentment for our partners who’s lives seem unaffected and continue as normal? Or when we shout at our child who is looking innocently at us for support but we’re just too exhausted to give any more? You are not on your own, and you are not a terrible parent. You are tired, empty and overwhelmed. Not because you don’t care but because you love and care so much  for your child that you’ve forgotten to take care of yourself.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://www.thepositiveparentcoach.co.uk/parenting-blog/supporting-tantrums</loc>
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    <lastmod>2023-12-05</lastmod>
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      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/60c730c91d372437e8997c3a/1623772655887-H08UEH2S4V9Z1XW4C23V/Mum+%26+children.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>Blog - Tantrums: Yes everyone’s looking at you - but what matters is your child</image:title>
      <image:caption>We’ve all heard the advice to put your oxygen mask on first before helping others, and had the importance of self care drilled into us so why is it that when we become a Mum our Mindset changes and we believe that in order to be the best Mum we can be we must put our child’s needs first, at the expense of our own? At what point do we accept that something needs to change? Is it after the first random bursting into tears? The resentment for our partners who’s lives seem unaffected and continue as normal? Or when we shout at our child who is looking innocently at us for support but we’re just too exhausted to give any more? You are not on your own, and you are not a terrible parent. You are tired, empty and overwhelmed. Not because you don’t care but because you love and care so much  for your child that you’ve forgotten to take care of yourself.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://www.thepositiveparentcoach.co.uk/parenting-blog/morning-sickness</loc>
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    <lastmod>2023-12-05</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blog - Managing with pregnancy sickness, especially with other children to care for.</image:title>
      <image:caption>Last month there was a recognised day for Hyperemesis Gravidium (HG). You might be thinking there’s a bloomin’ day for everything now (you’re probably right), or you could be asking what even is Hyperemesis Gravidum?! Now this question I can help you with. The NHS describe it as ‘Severe vomiting in pregnancy’ and quite frankly that’s only touching the surface. There is so much to this condition that people are still unaware of and this only adds to the confusion, loneliness and guilt surrounding it. But I can promise you that if you want an accurate account of what living with HG is like and how you can get through the day without wanting to cry, scream or take a cocktail of medication to just make the sickness go away you’ve found that here (ok I did lie a little bit there was some crying and medication involved, but only the one!).</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://www.thepositiveparentcoach.co.uk/parenting-blog/child-not-listening</loc>
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    <priority>0.5</priority>
    <lastmod>2023-12-05</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blog - How to keep calm and stay positive when your child won’t listen to you!</image:title>
      <image:caption>All parents come under pressure to know exactly what to do and how to raise their children to be the best versions of themselves. But how do you actually do this? You aren’t given a manual at birth, and parents are bombarded with so much conflicting information it makes teasing out the good stuff almost impossible. Don’t worry, after years of experience, learning and investing in myself (and trying several things out on my own children- sorry guys!) I have the answer!  And the good news is I’m sharing exactly how I Parent my children in a Positive way that enables me to remain calm and empowers my children to make the right choices.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://www.thepositiveparentcoach.co.uk/parenting-blog/positive-mindset</loc>
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    <lastmod>2023-12-05</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blog - Top 10 Tips for Maintaining a Positive Mindset</image:title>
      <image:caption>Staying positive at the moment might seem like an uphill battle, with a lot of us being placed under new rules, restrictions and time with our family and friends being taken away from us.  During a time of uncertainty it is exactly these loved ones we turn to for support so what can you do to stay positive when your normal go to options might not be available? I’m here to let you know that there are lots of options! If you can introduce some small changes into your every day routine, before you know it you will have created some happy habits and be well on your way to developing a positive mindset. The best part is just by you committing to some of these tips people around you will start to become more positive too. They will pick up on your change in energy and you can even do them as a family to encourage your children or partner to improve their Mindset too.</image:caption>
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